{"id":246011,"date":"2023-11-24T10:43:01","date_gmt":"2023-11-24T15:43:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rochesterapps.com\/rochestereduco\/lions-honor\/optimism-a-habit-and-a-choice"},"modified":"2023-11-24T10:43:01","modified_gmt":"2023-11-24T15:43:01","slug":"optimism-a-habit-and-a-choice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rochesterapps.com\/rochestereduco\/lions-honor\/optimism-a-habit-and-a-choice","title":{"rendered":"Optimism: A Habit and a Choice"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Optimism is defined by the Cambridge dictionary as\u00c2\u00a0 <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00e2\u20ac\u0153the quality of being full of hope and emphasizing the good parts of a situation; or a belief that something good will happen.\u00e2\u20ac<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We can foster and model how to be optimistic and view situations that have unexpected outcomes as opportunities to learn and think out of the box; it is all a matter of how we interpret events.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Modeling optimistic language and welcoming situations that might tilt the scale, e.g., sadness or frustration, turning them into opportunities of self-assessment and improvement, can teach resilience, confidence and start creating a mindset to face challenges.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So how can we help?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As caretakers and parents we can encourage our kids to make optimism a habit; the following are some strategies:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Be a positive role model. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Model being optimistic. Look for and point out the good side of events and experiences, instead of emphasizing what didn&#8217;t go as expected.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Interpret unexpected outcomes as opportunities.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Unexpected outcomes or \u00e2\u20ac\u0153failure\u00e2\u20ac are a natural part of learning that help us see and understand what we don&#8217;t know or what we are not able to do yet. Ask: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What will you do differently next time?<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and help kids self-evaluate: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What went well?, What would you change if you could?<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><b>Challenge negative explanations. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Encourage and propose different explanations for a situation, especially if the first one tends to be a pessimistic one; this will open the opportunity to explore change and improvement, and will allow the possibility to move forward.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Resumen:\u00c2\u00a0<\/i><\/b><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Podemos fomentar y modelar c\u00c3\u00b3mo ser optimistas y ver las situaciones que tienen resultados inesperados como oportunidades para aprender y pensar de manera creativa. Todo es cuesti\u00c3\u00b3n de c\u00c3\u00b3mo interpretamos los eventos.\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Entonces, \u00c2\u00bfc\u00c3\u00b3mo podemos ayudar?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Como cuidadores y padres podemos alentar a nuestros hijos a que conviertan el optimismo en un h\u00c3\u00a1bito, aqu\u00c3<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Optimism is defined by the Cambridge dictionary as\u00c2\u00a0 \u00e2\u20ac\u0153the quality of being full of hope and emphasizing the good parts of a situation; or a belief that something good will happen.\u00e2\u20ac We can foster and model how to be optimistic and view situations that have unexpected outcomes as opportunities to learn and think out of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[84],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rochesterapps.com\/rochestereduco\/lions-honor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/246011"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rochesterapps.com\/rochestereduco\/lions-honor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rochesterapps.com\/rochestereduco\/lions-honor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rochesterapps.com\/rochestereduco\/lions-honor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rochesterapps.com\/rochestereduco\/lions-honor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=246011"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/rochesterapps.com\/rochestereduco\/lions-honor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/246011\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rochesterapps.com\/rochestereduco\/lions-honor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=246011"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rochesterapps.com\/rochestereduco\/lions-honor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=246011"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rochesterapps.com\/rochestereduco\/lions-honor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=246011"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}